ON LEAVING FACEBOOK: part II
I went there
when I was lonely or bored.
There.
As if it were a place
like the back porch of my house
where I sit with the dog
or The Bakery where people I know
go to drink their coffee
or the yarn shop full of color and light.
I liked
things there so casually,
not the way I like
a cat on my lap
or a walk in the field with the dog
or sitting beside my husband on the sofa,
each with a book and a mug of tea.
I could share
things there mindlessly,
not the way I share
worries and joys with Meg
when go for our morning walk
or the way I share with my Real Godmother
Eleanor when we email every morning,
or the way I share recipes and rants about the news
with my old friend Kathy
or the way I share time on the phone
with my sister or my son or my grandson
or lunch with Linda or Megaera or Carol
or pie with Jean and Mel
or energy with the Tai Chi class
or books with the Heretics
or life with the Spring St. Poets
or music with Encanto.
They said it was always free
but not as free as making music
or knitting socks or reading Proust
or weeding the garden.
Not free
like the smell of bread or apples,
like sunset across the meadow
and sunrise through the branches of the gingko tree.
Yes, that captures it!
All true and well said. But on the other hand, as Tevye liked to say, there are still friends to miss your company – your wit and observations. And we hope you’ll come back to visit again.
I’m printing this out and leaving it by my computer to remind me to go do something other than be online. ❤
Thank you. And here I am, online, reading comments, instead of doing my work. Sigh.
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I’m trying to figure out how different one being online is from another. It’s not time we kill when we kill time.
That’s a good question, and a good observation. And is “killing time” offline better? Playing solitaire, or reading a trashy magazine? Interesting.